The Gift of Gabe by Jan Fagan
I just finished reading The Gift of Gabe, written by my friend Jan Fagan, and I was deeply
touched by the way she portrays grief, love, loss, and the difficult journey of learning how to live after someone you love has died.

Jan wrote this book from the heart after experiencing the death of her own husband, and that authenticity comes through on every page. Without giving too much of the story away, the interactions between the two main characters offer a wonderful example of what grieving people so often need: someone willing to walk beside them without trying to fix them or rush them through their pain.
They experience the highs and, especially, the lows of grief—sometimes together and sometimes in very different ways. That is one of the things I appreciated most. Grief isn't a straight line, and no two people experience it exactly the same way. There are good days and terrible days, moments of laughter followed unexpectedly by tears, and times when simply getting through the day feels like an accomplishment.
These characters don't run from their grief. They meet it head-on. They allow themselves to feel the pain, talk about the person they lost, remember him, and continue to include him in their lives. I especially loved that they still talk to him. Death may end a physical life, but it doesn't erase love, memories, or the relationship we carry in our hearts.
And that, to me, is such an important message.
Moving through grief does not mean "getting over" the person who died. It doesn't mean
forgetting them or leaving them behind. It means gradually learning how to carry both things at once—the sorrow of missing them and the possibility of living fully again.
As a Grief Recovery Specialist, it warmed my heart to see grief portrayed with such honesty and compassion. But beyond that, I simply loved the story. It reminded me that healing can come through friendship, connection, vulnerability, laughter, tears, and the courage to keep living even when someone important is no longer physically beside us.
The Gift of Gabe is ultimately about grief, but it is also about love—and the surprising gifts that can sometimes emerge from even our deepest losses.
Great job, Jan! I loved this book.
And I certainly hope you're already working on the sequel.





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