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Shirley Enebrad
Author, Speaker & Grief Counselor



Feelings of Guilt Are Normal
No matter how your loved one died—whether from an accident, a long-term illness, or a sudden medical event—feelings of guilt are common. They can quietly gnaw at you, leaving you angry with yourself and wondering if you could have done something differently. A person's hands bound with thick chains as they sit on the ground, highlighting themes of captivity and struggle in a somber, forested setting. You may feel embarrassed or ashamed because of something you did—or believe

Shirley Enebrad
2 days ago1 min read


Complicated Grief
One of the most distressing—and unfortunately common—experiences we face is the death of someone we love. Normal grief often includes periods of numbness, sorrow, anger, guilt, and deep self-reflection. A barren tree stands stark against a somber sky, its twisted branches symbolizing the tangled emotions of complicated grief. Although the pain never completely disappears, these intense emotions usually soften over time, making it possible to accept the loss and gradually move

Shirley Enebrad
Aug 122 min read


When Your Mother Dies
No matter how old you are, losing your mother is one of life's most profound losses. Whether you are 18 or 80, there is something uniquely heartbreaking about saying goodbye to the woman who brought you into this world. A small island rests peacefully in the center of a calm lake, encircled by mist-covered, wooded hills. From the moment you were conceived, your mother was your first home. She carried you for nine months, nourished you, protected you, and welcomed you into lif

Shirley Enebrad
Jul 283 min read
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