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Shirley Enebrad
Author, Speaker & Grief Counselor



Grief Is a Public Matter: Why Governments Must Support the Healing Journey
Grief is not a weakness. It’s not something people should have to “get over.” Grief is love that has nowhere to go. It’s the silent echo that remains after loss—a deeply human experience that connects us all. Yet, despite how universal it is, grief continues to be misunderstood, overlooked, and under-supported by the very systems meant to care for us. When Voices Rise: The Power of Collective Healing When someone loses a loved one, society of

Shirley Enebrad
Oct 10, 20252 min read


Even in silence, love leaves traces
As I look at this photo of a misty cemetery, I’m reminded of how grief has so many layers. Where Memory Meets the Mist Each candle and flower placed on a grave is not just an offering—it’s a symbol of love, memory, and connection that lives on even after someone has passed. Being in spaces like this teaches me that while grief may feel heavy, it also carries a certain quiet beauty. It’s a reminder that love never disappears; it simply changes form. Over the years, I’ve come t

Shirley Enebrad
Sep 30, 20251 min read


What should I say?
A few years ago, I was interviewed for a magazine article about what to say in a condolence card. Letters of Love and Letting Go A few days ago, a friend asked me the same thing. So, here's the content of the interview. I hope this helps those who need it. What are the best ways to comfort someone who is grieving? I find the best way to comfort anyone who is experiencing loss is to be present. That means active listening. Do not offer unsolicited advice. Whatever you do, pl

Shirley Enebrad
Sep 1, 20252 min read
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