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Shirley Enebrad
Author, Speaker & Grief Counselor



No One Grieves the Same as You
If there is one truth I have come to understand—after decades of leading grief workshops, retreats, support groups, and sitting quietly with people in their most broken moments—it is this: no one grieves the way you do. Lush green hills rise majestically under a sky painted with wispy clouds, offering a breathtaking view of natural beauty and serenity. Grief is not a formula. It is not a checklist. It is not something that can be measured or compared. It is as unique as your

Shirley Enebrad
Apr 282 min read


When Life Feels Random
I found myself asking a question I’ve asked many times over the years: How random is life? But this time, it wasn’t theoretical.It wasn’t something to ponder over coffee or write about from a distance. A couple stands side by side in a warmly lit setting, surrounded by a dreamy array of glowing lights and soft bokeh, capturing a magical moment together. It came from heartbreak. A young woman in her early thirties—full of life, full of promise—was married just weeks ago. She

Shirley Enebrad
Apr 182 min read


Resilience
Resilience is the ability to bounce back in stressful situations, recover from tragic mishaps, and move forward after suffering a setback. A breathtaking aerial view of lush green mountains and a winding river, under a sky dotted with clouds, showcasing the stunning natural beauty of Reunion Island. I was just in my now unrecognizable hometown of Lahaina. After 85% of the town was destroyed, I arrived at the end of a devastating Kona Low wind and rainstorm that created huge s

Shirley Enebrad
Apr 82 min read
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