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Shirley Enebrad
Author, Speaker & Grief Counselor



Thoughts About Father’s Day
In 1909, Sonora Smart Dodd of Spokane, Washington, decided she wanted to honor her father, a widowed Civil War veteran who had raised his children on his own. After attending a Mother’s Day sermon, she was inspired to create a special day dedicated to fathers. Apparently, Ms. Dodd was quite persuasive, because by 1910 Washington State held its first Father’s Day celebration. Celebrating Father’s Day with love and smiles, as these happy kids show appreciation for "The Best Dad

Shirley Enebrad
Jun 252 min read


Grief Takes a Toll on You
No one really tells you how physical grief is. We talk about the sadness. The heartbreak. The longing.But we don’t talk enough about what it does to your body… your mind… your ability to function in a world that keeps moving as if nothing happened. A solemn moment of placing white lilies on a cemetery gravestone, symbolizing loss and remembrance. Grief is exhausting. Sleep becomes elusive. You lie in bed, staring at the ceiling, replaying moments, conversations, regrets. Or w

Shirley Enebrad
Jun 212 min read


You Should Have Pushed Behavior Changes
This is one of the heaviest “shoulds” we carry in grief. changes The ones that don’t just whisper… they accuse. I should have pushed harder. I should have said more. I should have done something—anything—to make them stop. When the person you love struggled with something self-destructive—drugs, alcohol, smoking, or any behavior that slowly chips away at their health—this kind of guilt can wrap itself around your heart and refuse to let go. I understand this one deeply. My yo

Shirley Enebrad
Jun 143 min read
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